If A Female Can Get Formula From Wic, And Other Stuff Cost Less Than $100 Per Month, Why I Gotta Pay $400 ?
Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at
5:26 pm
Why I gotta pay $400 per month. I should be paying like $50. Kids don’t even eat that much. Seems to me the females getting pregnant are getting payed and us guys are paying for them not taking precautions. Maybe females are just playing games to get payed. They don’t pay no rent, get free money, formula, and food stamps. Maybe I should just bounce and stop working. I don’t really feel no connection to the baby any ways
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God Bless America; The land where women can have babies with whoever they want and live off the government.
Buddy, pay the child support. She needs it. You both went and had a child together so now it’s time for both of you to take responsibility for it. Love the child for the wonderful blessing that it is and be there for it.
Well, go on and bounce and I’ll bet your *** you’ll have a nice warrant out for your arrest for Flagrant Nonsupport waiting for you when you’re found
Guys like you should be Castrated, If you want to have sex and not pay child support for a child that you HELPED create you should consider that option. If you think about it a baby eats 4 to 6 ounces of formula every 3 to 4 hours that is 8 bottles a day at the beginning and usually poops about 6 times a day more on some days and also pees. The money that you give her is for diapers and stuff that the baby needs like clothes. I personally don’t think that $400 dollars a month is enough cause she is taking care of the baby by herself since you are not around. You are paying for being a coward.
Oh yeah, you do sound like a real winner! A baby needs more than just formula. The mom needs diapers, wipes, clothes (babies grow real fast), baby shampoo and soap, and a plethora of other things. Heck, $400 a month may not even be enough for the kid in this day and age.
If you didn’t want to pay to take care of a kid, maybe you should have kept in your pants. Yeah, some chicks do take advantage of guys like that just to try and get someone to take of them, and those chicks are trash. But if you really didn’t want a kid, you should have thought of that possibility beforehand and taken the proper precautions to keep from getting her pregnant.
Needless to say, what’s done is done and you can’t run away from it. You have a responsibility now whether you like it or not. It’s just as much your fault your in this situation as it is hers.
Well first of all it’s not just the mothers that get these services…Father’s who have custody of their children can qualify for these things too…Secondly i feel really sad for the child in your situation because just by reading this question it sounds like you want nothing to do with your child and that the mother is fighting with you all the time about something one way or another…I wish for once in this world that the parents would think about the beautiful child that was brought into this world and worry more about making them healthy and happy…but no it’s always all about themselves…it’s so sad…
I have to deal with a ***** of a women that would be my husbands ex…he also has to pay child support and she cheats the system by g
Dude, that’s a loser attitude to have, First of all, kids do eat alot and its not easy raising a kid on your own, a child needs a good father figure around and its starting to look like your not the one, so i guess your baby will grow up all f*cked up like yourself, anyways she’s not getting free money, welfare is overrated, it’s impossible to live off of welfare anymore, man you need to man up and stop complaining, it takes two to tango, and if you don’t pay child support, they will lock you up, garnish your tax returns, and revoke your license, you need to be there for your child and pay that money, she needs it.
Your baby needs diapers, wipes, clothes, and other things that food stamps and wic does not pay for.
If you think she is getting “free money” have you ever had to care for a child? I doubt it.
Precautions aren’t just the girls place, you can also.
I hope you try and make a connection with your child. Children need both parents. If you don’t try to connect with your child you may regret it immensely later on in life.
you sound like a fool if you didn’t want kids you you should wear a rubber now tell me this should your child reads this in the future what are you going to tell them what kind of role model are you going to be kids re not cheap you cheap person you need to have your head examined
WHAT ABOUT YOU TAKING PRECAUTIONS
We get wic, so they know the child is getting formula and fed right. (cause of sorry dads like you that don’t wanna pay child support) GROW UP AND BE A REAL FATHER- take care of your child, you sure was grown enough to have sex!!!
Why don’t you get custody so you can get all that money? Because having children is never a good deal financially and you know it. Take your own precautions, genius.
Kids don’t eat that much? Apparently you’ve never fed one!
Ummm, wy didn’t you take the precaution. It’s a two way street you know…Women get WIC so that they can be sure the child can meet nutritional needs when they can’t afford it, or because, father’s like you don’t take responsibility
Please get a vasectomy.
I really, really feel sorry for your child.
Guys like you give the rest of us men a bad name.
Wow. You sound like a great dad…
What is wrong with you?
You’re an idiot! If you didn’t want to pay child support, learn to keep your wanger in your pants – or find a cougar with her tubes tied!
You sound like a real winner. That poor child you helped create is going to grow up like I did, wondering where my dad was and why he abandoned us.
please don’t have anymore kids. we don’t need men , i’m sorry “boys” like you getting girls pregnant and having kids. and its a two way street you should of used a damn condom. JERK!!!
When you say you pay $400 a month what your paying for is more that just food for YOUR baby. You are providing clothes, shoes, and yes food. If you BOTH took per-cautions while you were enjoying your selves you would not be in this boat would you. And why is it that men assume that women are the ones that need to take care of the birth control. You should always use condoms even if the woman you are with tells you that she is on birth control anyways not all birth control is 100% effective. First of all you should be happy that there are programs out there for woman who need the help with there baby’s. Those programs are designed not only for the women but for the baby’s to make sure they get the nutrition they need as they grow. You should be ashamed of your self saying you have no connection to your child, or is it because he/she is a baby right now. Then when your daughter/son is able to care for himself is that when you will try to step back into his/her life when the hard part is over. It is very exhausting caring for a baby and sounds like the mommy of your child is raising this baby on her own. Obviously you will never win father of the year!!!!
The women aren’t the clients of WIC (unless they’re pregnant), it’s the children who are. Men who have primary custody of their children (who meet the income requirements) are eligible to be the representatives of their children for WIC same as their mothers. If someone is getting pregnant by you, it’s just as much your responsibility to take the necessary precautions as it is theirs. Time to take responsibilty for whom you have sex with and whether they can become impregnanted by you. Your and adult and should have the capacity to assure that no woman has your child unless the two of you choose to do this together. Sad to hear that your not connecting to your children, all children need their parents (both of them) to not only support them (both their financial needs and physically caring for them) but to provide love and guidance in life. If you can’t control your decision making when it comes to your libido, maybe consider looking into a vasectomy to prevent unwanted pregnancies (it can always be reversed at a later time if you so want). Good luck and at least try to be a good parent for your childrens sake.
WOW. you sound just like my both my kids’ dads. it just goes to prove that no matter where you are in the country (probably the world, for that matter), no matter how much time you spend away from men in case you might possibly run into the same situation again, pathetic, immature losers like you who rant and get pissed off and try to take revenge on the kids because the County is asking you to pay back medical care are around every single corner…and it seems like you are one of those actually standing on the corners.
grow up. yeah, sex can be fun, but listen little boy, Nature made us like it for a reason: TO HAVE BABIES. So if you don’t like the fact that your swimmers actually did what Mama Nature intended them to, then take the advice of everyone else here: GET A VASECTOMY. That way, you NEVER have to fret about paying to keep your kids alive.
Because you know, not taking care of your kids – which results in death from malnutrition or freezing to death – is a pretty serious crime. I’d like to see you pull this attitude off in another country. America’s generous enough to give you an option to be involved; where the heck else are you going to find that?????? just feel lucky you have the right to complain.
For HER not taking precautions???? Wrap that little vienna up and it sounds to me that “bouncing” on your part might actually be a blessing to that baby’s future. Think about that next time that little tinker toy stands up and maybe YOU won’t get another female pregnant and then… imagine this… YOU DON’T GOTTA PAY NUTHIN’! You need that thing cut off!!!
hope you keep going on.
I hope that your babY Is healthy and normal. I have known people who have children that were in critical condition (cancer) and some that died – one child had to have like 16 face operations because of a car accident that he was in and one of his eyes is still basically closed (the parents practically LIVE in the hospital)- he looks very different – PEOPLE DON’t want to look at him; some make fun of him. Always try to find the positive in a situation – like, “at least my baby is normal and has the activity of all of it’s limbs”. I myself have a child and it seems like everytime I didn’t know where the help was going to come from, it is there – whether I receive unexpected money, relatives, friends, strangers, etc. – God made a way and he will for you!! Every day, make a positive statement about your life and when thoughts come to you that are negative, say “I don’t receive that thought” and “I can do this because millions of other men are doing it every day”. When you want a break from the baby – pray and ask the Lord to send you you some help and he will. I have prayed when I did not know what to do and it does work!! Go around other people that have children also – it helps to be around people that understand. Always see the cup 1/2 full instead of 1/2 empty. You are going to make it because i’m going to pray for you along with many other people. Listen to positive music – no more negative stuff!!! Play positive video games (basketball/football) – no negative!! ( When your child cries, pull up the website called Julie True (go in the soaking room)- and this will help alot!!! Pay your friend, cousin, sister for a break. It’s worth it sometimes. Stay away from anyone that says that you should harm your child’s mother because if you do, you will be in jail for the rest of your life – avoid seeing her until you calm all the way down (still pay the $400) – avoid her when you are tired. The court can set it up where you can pick up and drop off the baby from someone else. Always choose the HIGH ROAD because it does pay off. You can live a life of guilt and shame or success – the choice is yours!!! Keep your head up soldier – IT’s going to be better!! When you do right, your life will be better just like when you do wrong, it comes back to you. Now that you are in the “system” they will lock you up if you don’t pay – have them take the money out before you see your check. Even if your child’s mother does not tell them, they will still get you – it’s not worth it to lose your job, manhood and mind over this. Most women won’t bother you if you are at least trying. Find friends, realatives, churches etc…One lady used to take her two grandchildren to church and drop them off for about two hours while she did other stuff – that is better than killing them because you are tired!! – some churches have infant classes where you can just sign them in and come back later for them, -call around or have your mom, sister, etc… to call for you. Get the baby on days that the church, your mom, sister, girlfriend, neighbor will help you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE – USE YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEMS!!! Don’t harm the baby – please don’t abuse it – that’s also jail – it’s just not worth it!!. When I make bad choices, it hurt’s many people – not just myself. I found out that it is better to at least try!! You are going to do well in life and your child will succeed also – You might have a preacher, a basketball star, a famous child that will take care of you, etc…. – !! Only hang with friends, family who are taking care of their children. It’s a mind game – refuse to think negative OR BE AROUND NEGATIVE INFLUENDES!!! — JUST T-R-Y!!!