http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html Free Stuff For Your Baby Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:19:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10141 Ladder Captain-29 Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:44:50 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10141 hey hun it is completely up to you what you do? There is two ways you can go get the csa on him and get him to pay. But this means that he is always going to be in your life and by the sounds of him and what he has done that don't sound to good. The other option would be to not collect csa and if he don't get in contact with you for 6 months he has no parental right over your baby at all. By the way no i don't think what you are doing is a bad thing it took him to make the baby and he knew what he was doing. Its completely up to you and i wish you all the best of luck for the future xx hey hun it is completely up to you what you do?
There is two ways you can go get the csa on him and get him to pay. But this means that he is always going to be in your life and by the sounds of him and what he has done that don’t sound to good.
The other option would be to not collect csa and if he don’t get in contact with you for 6 months he has no parental right over your baby at all.
By the way no i don’t think what you are doing is a bad thing it took him to make the baby and he knew what he was doing. Its completely up to you and i wish you all the best of luck for the future xx

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10140 Phish Tue, 02 Mar 2010 14:32:03 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10140 No its not bad,its blackmail pure and simple either on the father or us tax payers. A very good start for a child thats not born yet! No its not bad,its blackmail pure and simple
either on the father or us tax payers.
A very good start for a child thats not born yet!

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10139 Laurabal Tue, 02 Mar 2010 08:03:05 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10139 you and your family need to sign up for T V shows like Dr. Phil , Jerry Springer, or Maurvy Povandough( ? )-- again two screwed up young adults wanting to be grown but just cannot cut it-- on Maurvy at least you get a daddy test to make sure that is his child-- if you provde no paper work proving it is indeed his you lose-- maybe he felt jilted because the baby you carry was the both of ya'lls and YOU told everybody making him feel like nothing that is a big deal and ya'll both should have announced it- and from the way you wrote your complaint- you must run everything including his life , which is a no, no-- all this is JMO-sorry you and your family need to sign up for T V shows like Dr. Phil , Jerry Springer, or Maurvy Povandough( ? )– again two screwed up young adults wanting to be grown but just cannot cut it– on Maurvy at least you get a daddy test to make sure that is his child– if you provde no paper work proving it is indeed his you lose– maybe he felt jilted because the baby you carry was the both of ya’lls and YOU told everybody making him feel like nothing that is a big deal and ya’ll both should have announced it- and from the way you wrote your complaint- you must run everything including his life , which is a no, no– all this is JMO-sorry

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10138 Tiana P Tue, 02 Mar 2010 06:09:03 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10138 You're not having his name on the birth certificate, you don't know where he lives or how to contact him, and it's fairly evident he doesn't want to know or take responsibility. Remember, it's up to you to prove he IS the father, not for him to prove he ISN'T. I think you're sh*it out of luck, and the state picks-up the bill for yet another fatherless child. You’re not having his name on the birth certificate, you don’t know where he lives or how to contact him, and it’s fairly evident he doesn’t want to know or take responsibility. Remember, it’s up to you to prove he IS the father, not for him to prove he ISN’T.
I think you’re sh*it out of luck, and the state picks-up the bill for yet another fatherless child.

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10137 holly Tue, 02 Mar 2010 03:07:40 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10137 I don't think that is wrong at all. Sounds to be as if you have done nothing wrong and have done everything yourself so far! If you ask me, you are being leaniant by letting him see the baby at all after the way he has acted; there is no excuse for it, even if he is just scared of this sudden 'commitment.' But to be honest, if he didn't want it, he should have thought of that before! Men need to start taking a lot more responsibilities for their actions. No one can control your decisions to do with the child - Fortunately, it is your unconditional power to make the decisions involving your child being their mother and having carried them for 9 months! However, he is the father of your baby at the end of the day, and as much as I say he is lucky to get to see the baby at all, he is within his rights to see them if he wants! In short, I don't believe your decision is wrong at all, you are more than right to make the choices you have! I don’t think that is wrong at all. Sounds to be as if you have done nothing wrong and have done everything yourself so far!
If you ask me, you are being leaniant by letting him see the baby at all after the way he has acted; there is no excuse for it, even if he is just scared of this sudden ‘commitment.’ But to be honest, if he didn’t want it, he should have thought of that before! Men need to start taking a lot more responsibilities for their actions.
No one can control your decisions to do with the child – Fortunately, it is your unconditional power to make the decisions involving your child being their mother and having carried them for 9 months! However, he is the father of your baby at the end of the day, and as much as I say he is lucky to get to see the baby at all, he is within his rights to see them if he wants!
In short, I don’t believe your decision is wrong at all, you are more than right to make the choices you have!

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10136 missniki Tue, 02 Mar 2010 00:36:56 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10136 You're obviously seeking acceptance if you're rejecting and retaliating opinions you don't like... also extremely defensive. If it's acceptance you're seeking, talk to your friends about it instead; you've asked advice here and should take in everyone's opinions. If you know in your heart what you're doing is right then you don't need to ask, so think: maybe you should think twice about the advice before you retaliate You’re obviously seeking acceptance if you’re rejecting and retaliating opinions you don’t like… also extremely defensive. If it’s acceptance you’re seeking, talk to your friends about it instead; you’ve asked advice here and should take in everyone’s opinions.
If you know in your heart what you’re doing is right then you don’t need to ask, so think: maybe you should think twice about the advice before you retaliate

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10135 kimaliso Mon, 01 Mar 2010 20:47:36 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10135 If he says he will not pay child support you will be playing into his hands by not putting his name on the birth certificate. Do you really want your child to have a birth certificate that states "father unknown" how awful for your child. You are understandably angry with his irresponsible attitude, but need to think further ahead for the sake of your child state his name on the birth certificate and take the bastard for child support. Take care of yourself and baby. If he says he will not pay child support you will be playing into his hands by not putting his name on the birth certificate. Do you really want your child to have a birth certificate that states “father unknown” how awful for your child. You are understandably angry with his irresponsible attitude, but need to think further ahead for the sake of your child state his name on the birth certificate and take the bastard for child support. Take care of yourself and baby.

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10134 babydoll Mon, 01 Mar 2010 14:42:24 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10134 i see where you are coming from and get your points totally, but.. you chose to have the baby and you chose him to father it.. let him see it and if it all goes wrong or the t o s s e r loses interest you will always be able to tell your child you never stood in the way.. also all could change once the little love is born.. good luck chick i see where you are coming from and get your points totally, but.. you chose to have the baby and you chose him to father it.. let him see it and if it all goes wrong or the t o s s e r loses interest you will always be able to tell your child you never stood in the way.. also all could change once the little love is born.. good luck chick

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10133 zaffaris Mon, 01 Mar 2010 13:04:52 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10133 i dunno follow ur heart i think i dunno follow ur heart i think

]]> http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html/comment-page-1#comment-10132 hotmamai Mon, 01 Mar 2010 11:06:38 +0000 http://freestuffforbabies.net/im-eight-months-pregnant-and-do-not-want-the-father-to-see-the-baby-until-my-first-csa-payment-is-that-so-bad.html#comment-10132 sounds like my ex , whats his name,lol sounds like my ex , whats his name,lol

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