Im Going Thru Some Crazy Stuff With My New Boyfriend And Im Ready To Throw The Towel In Should I?
First off before i start i will say that hes here illegally but we are working on getting him right. He came on a work visa and never left. He trying to make a better life for his family and hes from a third world country. Please dont judge him nor myself for that matter the USA is a wonderful place, land of the free and home of the brave. Thanks in advance…MY QUESTION- His ex said shes having a baby. They broke up 3months ago but they were still doing it up until about a month and a half ago. Shes less than a month with child and he doesnt believe her. She wants money for abortion which i dont believe in nor does he. She said if he doesnt give up the money shes calling INS, his job, and his apartment complex to tell them hes illegal. Hes depressed and doent know what to do nor does i can someone help us? She has 3kids already for 3 different men and he thinks shes just trying to get money from him.
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Well this one is pretty difficult, first how long has he been with you? If he was sleeping with you and her at the same time, I don’t think any of this is your problem. Then again if this was over when the two of you started, I would get on finding a way to make him legal so she has no leverage at all. If he doesn’t believe in abortion then he shouldn’t feel obligated to give money to terminate a child that may be his. Seriously, she gets nothing if she calls INS but revenge, then she is still pregnant with no money and no one to blame so she’s probably bluffing but I don’t really know anything about her so he would be a better judge of if she would do it.
No need to suck up for the Country??? If he’s found, and you’re hiding him; my dear, you can get jail for that and he’ll be deported anyway, Think twice and don’t believe all what he says!!!
first of all your relationship with him is starting out bad and full of drama what makes you think that it will change
and why is it your responsiblity to help him become legal so he can move on to someone else
hav u tld him how u feel? if u hav, hes probly gettin dat ur about to go if he doesnt make suttin happen soon…unless hes really stupid…but if u wait, and evrything stays the same or starts gettin worse, leave him. u cant b wit a guy dat isnt steady wit himself yet. its impossible for him to care for u while barely bein able to care for his one issues. sry babe, good luck.