Deadbeat Father Trying To Kidnap Child?
My dead beat child father is trying to grab my the baby after i filed for custody . I don’t want to keep him away from his child i just want him to take care of his kid and get right over a influencing bulling Grandmother who always overwrite our decision for our son . His partner in crime his mother always there when we are having issues like this concerning taking our son. She always there in anything we going through ,her son always right i’m always wrong . The first time he filed for shared custody we decided to talk it out rather than going to court . That was when our son was only two months now he 19 months today I finally had enough of the deadbeat and his mother on christmas day i told him we will share the day even though he’s muslim and not taking care of his child needs . I decided since his family celebrate the day i’ll be fair . I just not ok with him spending the night on christmas i have other plans maybe another day . Well time when by at least 12 am no call no show . I called the mother because he claims he do not to have a phone. She said she don’t know where he left with my son . They showed up mother and all the next day 6 pm with my son . This was the second time they lied about my son where about to protect her son . The mother was hiding around the corner . My son came home hungry ate 12 ounces of milk and food . He was brought back no under shirt and over sized diapers and same clothes . The father expected me to provide diapers and lactose free milk , On saturday they showed up a month later , he wanting to talk after i ignored his phone calls at 11:50 pm in the night ,Asking where his son ? He ask me to put a coat on and come outside with our son . i said no phone calls ,this time at night and still your doing nothing for him and the stunt you pull with your mom , good night . a female voice shout something while i walked away from the door. I knew the kidnapping was the plan because he had his mother van and the car door wide open not parked wanting to talk at 11;50 pm at night . I want to know if i should get a temporary retraining order against him until our court date in fear of him keeping our child since we both don’t have right over him yet . The father family been piloting on get my son for his dad to have him . A father that have no stable home and put his needs before his kids . Only to allow his mother to have my son until june our court date . Any advice on how can I be outside and not have them push me or try something stupid .
