Well Im 13 And I Want A Baby?
okay well i no what ur gonna say
“omg your 13 your way to young” well i dont care i have most of this planned out well my grandma has a clothing room in her basment and she gets stuff for free from suermarkets and she give them to people she gets old clothes,baby food,dipers and a bunch of other stuff, and dont say im counting on her she would just help and we already have cribs and baby blankets ….. i have a niece that ive baby sitted A LOT and i love haveing her around me 24/7 ive gotten up in the middle of the night to get her from her crib and ive rocked her to sleep like 100 times ive changed her diper ive fead her and given her a bath and dressed her like amillion times i carry her around the store and the house i dont mind it al all i ahve lots of patience and im very mature and i very good with kids and babys even mi sister in law said that,and mi grandma my old baby sitter from me being 6-7 and my aunt,mom,dad,brother he’s 27 my uncles and granpa they all say im wonderful with babys and kids… i would be home schooled for a year and then go back to public school and then we have a day care at out school for teenagers that have had babys and would like to stay in school
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You should think about finishing school and finding a husband before you think about having a baby….
If you have a baby at 13 it will affect your entire life, you will have to raise your kid and work when you get older, it will be harder for you to date or go out with friends. Kids also cost a lot of money, when the baby gets older it will need new clothes and more food. You will also have to take it to school and other activities and help it with its homework.
what is your question? trying to justify having a baby when you’re still a child yourself? sorry, you have no life experience to give to a growing child, and obviously you have no common sense. terrible idea.
that’s the most immature thing i have ever heard
sweetheart, being a mom is not only abt changing dipers and baby sitting
with being a mom comes responsabilty, to be able to stay up night looking after the baby. u wont be able to study at all
god! i cant even find word to describe the stupidity of ur plan!!
girl ur 13 ! u shouldnt have sex at this age in the first place!!
idk about that..
but theres also other things you havent thought out.
what if its mentally retarded? breathing problems?
or in general, sick.
what about child support?
college?
just wait. live your life. since you already have your neice just
let that be your practice. i think you’ll be glad you waited.
…oh dear!!..concentrate on your own childhood and having fun!!..
Pregnancy will have a HUGE impact on your very young body!!…and NOT a good one..potentially very dangerous and life threatening.
The fact that your 13 and making that statement is a clear indication that you should just carry on being a child. ..
Why is it that young people think its easy??..Its NOT a plaything!!!
the only problem with that plan is that you need to get a good education to have the job security to take care of a kid for 18 years.
it’ll only be a baby for a little while. will you still enjoy it when it 8 and annoying or 13 and thinks its grown enough to make you a grandma at 26?
You can’t drive, vote, drink, or get a job legally. You can’t even spell or use punctuation.
Get a goldfish or a cat. Better yet, get your head on straight.
when you can learn to spell properly, THEN go have a baby!
Be real your way too young…go read your books and finish school!
OMG, no way. Your too young. Sorry about this answer but i think your too young.
get a doll baby and call it a day.
erm, you’re 13.
wtf?
Have you thought this through? How are you going to support this child? Are you planning on living off public assistance and freebies the rest of your life? Does your mom, dad, grandma, aunts and uncles know that you are planning this? And are they willing to support you and keep a roof over you and your child’s head? What message will that send to your child? What are you giving them in return? We do not live in 1600 where the life expectancy was short and old age was 40. We now have a life expectancy of 90 plus years. What I’m saying is you should finish you school years, get further schooling in something you enjoy, maybe nursing, and work in the baby nursery, or to start up your own child care center. This is the time of your life where you should be increasing your own self worth. A child is a BIG responsibility. Think it through, not just for today but for the future also. Make good choices, Good Luck!
Of course you do, it’s called hormones.
“im very mature”
I 100% guarantee that you are not. It’s about the most immature thing a 13 year old could say. In another 5 years or so, when you’ve matured a LOT, you’ll realise that you are still not mature. And you’ll look back at yourself thinking you were mature at 13, and you’ll laugh yourself silly.
If you were mature you’d realise that you are the best part of a decade off being ready to be a mum.
Have you thought about the fact that whoever gets you pregnant at the age of 13 will go to jail because it’s considered statutory rape? Do you want your baby’s father to be in jail and to be considered a child molester for the rest of his life?
Have you considered what pregnancy will do to your body? There is a reason you need to be older. Pregnancy at this age can be so dangerous, death is a huge factor.
Just because you get stuff free from supermarkets doesn’t mean that will be the kind of food your baby will need or eat – what will you do then?
It sounds like you have spent a lot of time with kids but trust me, you have no idea what it is like to be up every 2 hours every single night for months at a time. You have no idea how tiring that can make you.
Can you honestly say that your grandmother thinks it is a good idea for you to have a baby at the age of 13?
Babies need a lot more than cribs and baby blankets. Who is going to pay for your medical care? Who is going to pay for the baby’s medical care? Remember, the father will be in jail. Who pays for the food when your baby starts eating solid food?
There are just so many reasons why this is a really bad idea. Make sure you know the difference between WANT and NEED.
Having a baby at your age is a serious health risk. You have proved that you can take care of a perfectly healthy baby, but what about a baby with special needs? A preemie? Your body isn’t fully developed no matter how mature you are for your age. Your chances for carrying to your due date aren’t good and the chances of your baby being problem free aren’t any better.
I’m 15 years old and my daughter was born 5 weeks early. 2 weeks before she was born I went into labor. They stopped the contractions with medications for a couple of hours, but then they started coming again. They had to stitch my cervix together. On September 22nd, my doctor induced me. After I was fully dilated and started pushing, my baby’s heart rate went too low and my doctor had to rush me to the OR for an emergency c-section. Aimee came out blue with her cord wrapped around her neck. She was in the NICU for a couple of days and then had to be closely monitored until we left 5 days after her birth. She had to be hooked up to an oxygen tube 24/7 for the first month of her life. Now she has to be hooked up to it only when she sleeps. Sometimes when she is eating Aimee stops breathing and chokes. It is the scariest thing to see her like that.
My sister and her husband had triplets this past Monday. The first 2 babies are doing wonderfully, but they lost their daughter on Thursday. Could you handle that? My sister has been staying strong for the other two babies, but you can tell she’s hurting on the inside.
What you’re feeling are hormones. It’s completely normal, but sometimes people go too far so I wanted to share some stories. You really don’t want a baby now. You’ll know that when you’re older. You’ll be thankful that you didn’t have a baby until you were older. Enjoy being your age while you can. For now, babysit, babysit, babysit!
you think its so easy now but when i had my son i didn’t even want to step foot in school and im in independent studies which is like home school its harder than you think! how will you provide for your child? will you be willing to spend all day meeting his needs? stay in school get a good job get married then have kids. you know only like 60% of teenage parents stay in high school and most of them live below the poverty level do you want to be another one of those statistics? onlu one in four teenage fathers support their kids. i may sound very hypocritical since i am a teenage mother but you have plenty of time to have kids.
You are rushing your childhood.Have you ever thought about how hard it will be in the future to suport the kid without a proper education.I don’t know if I spelled that word right but anyways your are only a year older than me and I can’t imagine having to get up at three in the moring every night before school and having to take care of someone else all the time at only 13.You would have a nother mouth to feed,a hard time at school and homework,you would be growing up to fast and one day you will regert your childish choice.If I were you I would keep my mind on books not boys and babys.I wish you at least wait till tou are 18.That way you will at least have a educatoin and you will be an adult.You would most likely be a little more responsible.I wish you good luck and remember you deserver a childhood to enjoy time to just be a kid and have fun.Once again good luck and make a good decesion.
well good for you….I’m almost 29 and I WANT to win the lottery. Doesnt mean its going to happen. If you (and I have nothing against teen moms) want to PURPOSELY ruin your life, go hard. Nobody can stop you. I just hope when you are my age and look back, you “get” what you did to yourself and the child. As well as you understand that you lost many years to parenthood (that should have been “child years”) and you will never get them back or get to experience that!!
Have at er’….I’m sure your parents will be so proud!
Taking care of your own baby is much harder than caring for others. many girl at this age 9I ma thirteen as well) believe that having a baby will help them be loved unconditionally…but that is not how it gos. Even if you were home schooled, it would be hard to concentrate and you would most likely be unemployed and maybe even die in the act of child birth. it’s good that you are great with kids, but than you should care for others until your time to be a true mother comes. it’s not fair to bring a human being into a world where they will suffer (Because your baby will when he/she gets older for having such a young mom.) Truly, waiting will let you experience what will help you raise a child (parties, friends, school) because without these experiences it’s hard to raise a good kid. Please, speak with your parents about this urge and perhaps they can help. And don’t forget, not only with there be a risk that you will raise the baby alone, but there is also the risk that your family could alienate you or your babies father wants to be involves (ending in custody battles). having babies at such a young age is risky for your and the baby’s health.
Your to young. Yeah i know that’s not what you want to hear but it’s the truth. Being a parent is hard work. What if your baby doesn’t turn out to be like your niece? What if he/she has special needs? Are you ready for that?
Are you ready for somebody to depend on you, & I mean totally on you? What about if your baby is colicky ( that means they cry a lot for no reason at all).
You say your ready but your not. Sorry but that’s the truth.
HUN IM 15 GT PREGNANT AT 14 BY A 19 YEAR OLD AND NOW HE IS IN JAIL TEEN PREGNANCY IS NOT SOMETHING YOU WANT YOU MAY SAY NOW THAT U WANT ONE BUT WHEN U GET PREGANT ITS HARD U NEED A JOB A LICENCES AND IM REALLY NO ONE TO TELL YOU WAT TO DO BUT YOU DONT NEED A KID AT YOUR AGE YOU IN WHAT MIDDLE SCHOOL IF U GET PRGNANT YOULL STILL HAVE TO GO TO SCHOOL DAY CARE COST MONEY YOU HAVE TO GO TO ALOT OF APPINTMENT AND MISS ALOT OF SCHOOL.. PLEASE WAIT ITS HARD BEING A TEEN MOM IN NO 1ST HAND
Yes, you are too young. You cannot provide for this child if something (God forbid!) were to happen to your grandmother. How would you drive, get a job, pay for necesities like diapers and such? You simply would not be able to! You are setting yourself up for a very very hard life when you should be enjoying being a kid yourself!
Put it this way, if you needed major brain surgery would you trust your life with a surgeon who has done this thousands of times or somone off the street who has simply read books about how to do brain surgery? Having a baby is just as serious! You are now responsible for another person’s LIFE! Not simply a doll that you can carry around!
I’m sure your mind is made up, but I’m telling you, you are putting yourself in a dangerous situation.
I’m sure that you will be a wonderful mother someday. Part of being a wonderful mother is considering what is best for your baby. Right now isn’t the best time for you to become a mother. Think about how much better off your baby will be once you have gone to college, found a stable job and found the right person to share the experience with. It sounds like you are getting some wonderful experience taking care of your niece. That will be so helpful in the future. Enjoy the time being an aunt and focus on school so that when the time is right…. You’ll be the most awesome Mom in the world. Rush things – and you may find that you don’t have everything figured out. Believe me – I’m 28 and it still happens to me. Unfortunately, some mistakes are permanent – think carefully before drawing on the walls of life with a big fat sharpie.
Ok, im 14. I love children too. I used to want them all the time. Until my mum had a baby. Dont get me wrong i love my baby brother to death! But the baby sitting, “will you change his nappy” and the whole screaming scenario really does get to you after a while. To be a mother you need to be experienced and ‘able’ to look after a child. To begin with you are actually underage, think of what people would think of youy. I mean , im no one to judge you but i think you will ruin your life. A baby is meant to bring happiness to your life, at first im sure you will be happy. Until you aren’t able to go out with your friends to the coolest party. All because you have to look after your child. You said you will rely on your grandma bringing home ‘free’ nappies etc. That isn’t fair on the child! You can’t rely on freebies. Untill you are out of school and have your own independace, PLEASE reconsider your thoughts!
Our son in 9 months old and we have visited Babies R Us on average every two weeks to get things he needs. A swing, sheets, sheet protectors, clothes (LOTS of clothes), medicine, toys, food, formula, etc, etc, etc………… How do you plan on buying all the needed items? I garantee you your grandma will not get enough free supplies for you to provide for your baby. Plus, don’t you want to be the one who provided for your baby??? Don’t get me wrong, programs like WIC are great, but to have a baby and solely reley on others to provide for him/her are selfish and show how COMPLETELY NOT READY YOU ARE TO HAVE A BABY.
How to plan on providing medical care for your baby? Do you have your own insurance, do you know how insurance works? Do you know what a co-pay is? How do you plan on paying the co-pay let alone any other medical expense that WILL come up once the baby is here.
Who is going to home school you? Considering how bad your spelling and grammar are in your question, you need to be in school full-time with certified teachers.
Also, what about football games, prom, homecoming…….. how will you ever enjoy these events with a baby? Trust me, none of your friends will stick by you if you have a baby. You will be in completely different places in your life. Youe friends will have nothing in common with you because you are dealing with vomit, diapers, 4am wake-up calls, doctors appointments…. All the while your old friends are going to hang out at the mall, talk to boys, going to prom, parties. You will be completely alone and your poor baby will be the one who suffers the most.
Hun, you aren’t even currently dating anyone, so how would you manage to get pregnant in the first place? You are 13-years-old, not even in high school yet! Teen girls have a maternal instinct to want a baby, but the reality of it is just scary. You’re responsible for another human life once the baby is born. And you may be good with babies and kids, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’d be a good parent. You’ve probably only seen the good side of dealing with babies. You have yet to experience waking up at 3 AM to a screaming baby wearing a crap-filled diaper.
well the truth is even if you do feel prepared for this…. you may not want to do it anyway you have alot of life ahead of you including bf parties ect. and with a baby that stuff will go to the bottom of your priority level you are just becoming a teenager have fun and get a career at least started before having a baby reevaluate what you want when you become 18 and you may notice you are having so much fun that a baby can wait a little longer
good luck and sorry i know this is not what you wanna hear
Did you plan out all night feedings, 2 am diaper changes, 4am vomiting sessions.
Crying from 5am on.
Diarrhea BLOW OUTS in public, where the diarrhea runs down the baby’s leg and all over YOUR clothes.
I know babies look cute in their little outfits, BUT those little outfits end up with vomit and diarrhea on them …
The baby doesn’t just hang out for you to cuddle, the baby CRIES and SCREAMS and DEMANDS your every moment of the day.
If you have a baby ALL your time will be spent getting your baby ready.
You’ll have to get up 2 hours before school just to get the baby ready, dressed, fed, changed .. changed again, make another bottle, pack the stuff for the daycare.
YOU will end up going to school with your hair in a bun and no time to get ready JUST so your baby is ready for daycare.
And there is no such thing as getting up a little earlier just to get yourself ready, that doesn’t work. You will be SO exhausted from staying up with the baby ALL NIGHT LONG the night before, you won’t even think about brushing your teeth ..